Know If He or She Is Interested In You By These Signs!

When you like someone, the most obvious question comes into your mind, must be ‘Does he or she like me?’. How to tell if someone likes you is a hard question. Some people tend to confirm each other’s feelings by saying ‘I love you’. It is best to ensure the other person feels the same way before jumping to conclusions.

Today, We will share 20 signs to help you know if someone likes you. 20 Signs to Know Someone Likes You

1. Do they always agree with your opinion?

There is a ‘Similarity Principle’ when we meet new friends. That means people prefer to get along with others who share the same interests and hobbies. If people agree with your to your point of view, you get a sense of satisfaction.

If a guy or girl likes you, they will agree with your point of view. Even if they don’t, they’ll say that your opinion is also very reasonable. However, if he or she often disagrees with your idea, they may not fancy you.

2. Do they want to know more about you?

The mere-exposure effect is a psychological phenomenon by which people tend to develop a preference for things merely because they are familiar with them. One interesting thing is that, even if you don’t like something at first, you have a strong possibility to change your mind when you know more about it.

3. Do they respond your messages?

If your dream love does not reply to your message for a long period of time, they may not be interested in you. They might be busy but they could also be doing this on purpose. They may be too stubborn to reply and if they do, they will feel in conflict and anxiety, so they’ll tell you they are ‘busy’ or ‘have something to do’ to reduce their anxiety.

4. Do they eat a lot?

Experiments show that girls will eat less when eating with their dream love (This is not applicable to boys). So, if you are lucky enough to dine with your goddess, you can pay attention to her appetite, if she is eating an excessive amount during the meal, she may not have a special feeling for you.

5. Gifts will get them thinking

Give them gifts a few times and see their reaction. If they are happy to receive your gift, this means they have a good impression on you.

6. If they are concentrated when dating


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When you are dating, there are also some signs a guy or girl likes you. For example, when you are telling a funny story, will they laugh with your story.

If they keep playing their phone or you are the one that is constantly talking on the date and are not paying any attention, they may not be interested in you.

7. Pay attention to their eyes

If they are interested in you, they’ll always look at you. There is a good way to help you test: first look at their faces for four seconds, then look away and look back again. If they keep eye contact with you, it proves they are interested in you. If they look at your mouth, then they are 100% attracted you. If they look at you for two or three seconds, they might be interested in you. If they stop the eye contact and look away, they may not be interested in you.

8. Observe whether their attitude to others is different from you.

If they really like you, their attitude to you must be different from others. Some boys may even flirt with other girl to attract their dream girl’s attention. They want to know your reaction to see if you like them. (Yes, I know this sounds weird.)

Fortunately, if you check carefully, you can know if he is doing this intentionally. If he just wants to attract your attention, he will secretly observe your performance when flirting with other girls. You can pretend to go to the bathroom, if he stops when you leave, he is into you but not others. Or you can pretend to leave, let your friends help you to check.